Hypnotherapy for Performance Anxiety
Due to my career as a professional vocalist and singer, I love working with performers helping them unlock their true potential. The challenges that can arise with anxiety around performance are very real. It is natural to experience nerves before a performance - whether it be delivering a presentation or a wedding speech, running a race, performing an audition piece or simply standing up to speak in front of a room full of colleagues - all of these can be a daunting prospect. Sweaty palms, brain-freeze, increased heart rate, dry mouth, stomach flips, the sudden need for the loo…. All of these responses are very common. Solution Focused Hypnotherapy can help us to become confident and calm performers.
VISUALISE YOUR SUCCESS
Before a fight World Heavy Weight boxer, Muhammed Ali would focus intensely on visualising how he would take on his opponent in the ring, mov by move, round by round. When Ali was clear on how he would defeat his opponent he would call a press conference and confidently announce in which round and how he would win the fight. Ali’s predictions were no empty boasts as they invariable came true!
Ali was not engaging in idle talk but was really sharing his vision of his desired outcome with the press.
Let's understand how the brain works and how it is possible overcome performance anxiety and achieve our goals.
This is the prefrontal cortex, it is our conscious part, the part you know as you, and it is connected to a vast intellectual resource known as the Intellectual Mind. When we are operating from this part of the brain, we are calm, we make good decisions and come up with solutions based on a proper assessment of the situation, the outcome is generally very positive.
However there is another part of the brain, the original Primitive Mind, which concerns itself with our survival, constantly scanning for danger and threat. If it perceives a threat or crisis it steps in to help by making us anxious (to keep us on high alert) depressed (to keep us isolated from danger) or angry (ready to fight).
The Primitive Mind is a negative and obsessive mind and always refers back to previous patterns of behaviour, which are often inappropriate. If the stress response ensured our survival previously - that is what we are encouraged to do again.
The Primitive Brain does not like change, so if we push ourselves out of our comfort zone, it often encourages us not to - perceiving it as threat. However there are many rewards to be received by positive action and doing the things that challenge us, these rewards encourage us to seek out more positive experiences. We must learn to take intellectual control over and override our primitive impulses.
The Primitive Brain cannot tell the difference between imagined and reality. If we imagine something bad happening we receive the stress response and become anxious, by negatively forecasting a performance going wrong or dwelling on an unsuccessful past performance we strengthen those negative neural pathways and add to our stress bucket.
When our stress bucket is full we spend more time in the Primitive Brain feeling nervous, anxious and depressed going over all the worst possible outcomes. This can affect our sleep patterns which negatively impacts our ability to make good decisions and think positively.